The scare with his son, depression before having the baby and success with his tango show

It retouches his mouth with a red lipstick in front of the immense mirror of the dressing room of his dance trial room. It looks radiant even though it slept little. Nothing out of the ordinary for Noelia Marzol taking into account that she is Donatello’s mother, three and a half years old, and Alfonsina, two. In addition, he stars in his show Bloody Tango and acts in the work A TIME JOURNEY.

The life of the actress and dancer changed radically five years ago, more or less. He fell in love, married, discovered motherhood, which fascinated him, and also grew in the creative. They were like three births continuously.

In February 2021, Noelia married Ramiro Arias, former professional soccer player of Córdoba. I was pregnant with Donatello. Five months after the arrival of his first child, he becomes pregnant with Alfonsina. And then, decide to create Bloody TangOr, show that stars and produces successfully in the Astral Theater.

The combo sounds exhausting. “That’s right,” he admits with a laugh. “At one point I took the account and slept less than four hours a day. I had no weekends or holidays. Tiring, yes, but today everything is aimed. It is very crazy because without Donatello I would not have dared to have Alfonsina and without Alfonsina I would not have dared to create Bloody, ”reveals Noelia.

The births arrived with a bread under their arm, but They had their complexities: “Donatello had a clinical problem that I don’t count so as not to stigmatize it. I will tell him when he is great. But it was wrong and had to be hospitalized in neonatology. Being there saved him from sudden death. When he was monitored, they attended him on time and saved him. Then he spent a while. Dona’s first year was hard. Very careful. I cried a lot. Above we live in Benavidez, so we had to move to my mother, in capital, which was closer to the sanitarium. It was pandemia, ”he recalls.

And crucial moments come to mind: “Doctors have a limit to action. I remember that the head of neonatology told us something like this: ‘Well guys, this is minute by minute, may God help us. We did everything we could do, now good luck ‘. Total fear. It was certainly the worst that happened to me in life, unprecedented. Living it was like a total curse. And there is always the feeling of fear, that something happens or happens when he sleeps. Sometimes I think of women who suffer the loss of a child. I think I couldn’t go ahead, ”he imagines.

After the alert with Donatello, they thought of having “the baby.” Although Noelia confesses that her fantasy was “having a population of children”The point is that at the ten months of Dona, Alfonsina was born again. The problem was prior to his arrival.”I had pre -birth depression. I think it is said so. He grabbed me at six months of pregnancy. And at eight and a half I was shouting for them to take it out. I was very bad. I didn’t want to get out of bed. It was even a ugly feeling to the baby! As I thought: ‘This girl who is fucking my life‘. Then they explained that this depression I felt could have had to do with a hormonal issue or with feeling bad physically. It had naúseas and the low pressure. It was summer, it was hot and that ironed me. It was a flan. I ended up hospitalized with absolute rest for contractions. I couldn’t get up even to pee. It helped me to do a lot of therapy and my husband, who reached me, ”he says.

And everything changed when giving birth: “At the same moment that Alfonsina was leaving my body, I was invaded by a feeling of Tota’s joy and fullnessl. It was very rare. Alfonsina was born by natural delivery and I took Upa to the room. He turned on the tit. Then Dona came and showed pussy with her sister. All happy. This is glory, I felt, ”he says.

With the motherhood, he emerged more strongly, the creative art, his passion. And also some fears. Noelia began to think about finitude. “I said: ‘I have a useful life and I will not be able to live all my life dancing‘. And neither did I want to leave Ramiro all the economic responsibility. I thought then how to continue linked to dance, which is the love of my life. Because if I don’t dance, I’m dying, ”he says.

And while dreaming about opening its own school (project that remains for the future), The idea of ​​the tango show arose: “I was dancing for a dream and one day we were going to snack with Jony Lazarte, my partner in the contest and the tasting (María Laura Cattalini), my coach, and chatting we came up.”

-Why did you choose tango?

-Because I love it! My grandfather Reinaldo was a railway and loved tango. I looked for a return considering that some see it ancient. I said: “Let’s renew it.” We put the classic songs and also Britney Spears songs and the Rolling Stones in two by four mode. We hired a musician who is a genius, who made us all versions and then thought of telling a love story, that was sexy, where there were transparencies. And we are going super.

-Prueba surpassed, just as you spent with your children …

-Yeah, Being a mother changed my life radically. Everything was learning and all teaching. Until when I was hospitalized, pregnant with Alfonsina, who could not get out of bed or to pee, I began to weave things, I read a lot of books, novels, such as My mother, Yiya Murano. Pochocleras things.

-You have talked about curse for a while. Do you believe in those things?

-No, I’m atae. It was only: “Oh, God, why do I have to go through these things?”

-And you made a believer after going through those situations?

-(Laughs) Not at all. And even more because my son re banked. Donatello did his job, put all his predisposition to continue living. So the whole award is his, he recontures him and deserves a beautiful life. He put the body. I learned. Maternity is something that fascinates me and that’s why I took another step and I had another child.

-And they closed the factory or is the third one?

-I did not close it, but Ramiro asks me all the time: “When do I ask for date to make me vasectomy?” He is convinced that we are already and for me there is a look at the end of the road and I do not want it to go out. Ramiro tells me that it is all so perfect that he does not want anything to change. Over there, if a third party comes and ends up being a demon … we will see. It may be that or it may not. Some days loosen a little and others throw me: “Not even another child.”

-How did they meet your husband?

-I met him doing the sex show. Ramiro was convinced that he was coming to the function, I was going to conquer, we were going to marry and we were going to have children. That told his family and friends. And he got it. I was chasing me for the entire function, the whole work. And continued to come for many functions. Even (José María) Muscari killing himself with laughter and said: “Never give up this kid because it always comes, pay the entrance and brings friends. For us it is a round business.” And well, Ramiro insisted and then started talking to me on Instagram.

-Do you liked it right away?

-Yes, the truth is that I liked it. He came to sex as very relaxed and simple. The first night we went out: “I don’t know what I’m going to talk about …” And we spent barbarian and end up marrying. Moreover, a year after knowing him I was pregnant (laughs). I feel it is the love of my life.

-Did you have many boyfriends throughout your life?

-You have a lot of relationships. I presented my family for ten formal … and there were other informal ones. I did the casting of life. My advice to women is: “Take care, because to enjoy you have to know how to take care of yourself and know that everything is OKEY. Then enjoy and stay with the best.”

-It said dreams, you formed a family, you played as a producer, are you quieter?

-I can never loosen. I am like an anxiety ball, an anxiety ball. On the one hand I realize and I appreciate the way, which was hard. Being a dancer requires a lot of effort and a lot of discipline. One, in reality, does not know if he will always be able to live on that. I did rhythmic gymnastics from four to seventeen. I competed: I went to London, to the Czech Republic, to Poland. I am full competitive. I don’t like losing anything. I studied at the National University of the Arts. But it is a short race. You can’t dance intensely many years. One has to retirer. I am already 38 years old.

-How is your body for the theme of dance?

-You have a pair of discs of disc and I have my knees there, infiltrated with hyaluronic. I tried a lot of treatments, I did kinesiology and proposed this treatment with a soccer players athlete. They infiltrated me six months ago and I no longer have knee pains. A relief. For now, very well, enjoying. And tired at the same time.

– And how do you carry the role of handling your own companance?

-I must have a lot of pressure. There was a lot of expectation, that they say: “Let’s see this kid, what the producer wants to do, what will we show us.” And everything went to lung, because I do everything: from embroidering the dresses to loading the handys. I esmer for me to be a great show.

– How many are in total?

– We are eleven above the stage and forty -three as a company. It is a lot of responsibility because you have to cover everyone’s salaries and comply with everyone. And at the same time, I like to create work groups where people are happy. We have a function of Miécoles 30, in the astral, then we will make a national tour. We will be sure to Uruguay. And in May and June, we return to Buenos Aires, to the Broadway Theater. I’m happy. I don’t know if I will end up winning money, but it would make us very happy to carry Bloody outside, to Brazil, to Spain …

-All time I talk about this in therapy because I have a tremendous level of anxiety.

-The therapy then does not change for anything, right?

-That which and I am with the same therapist since the age of fifteen. Imagine that I have to tell another person. Eve knows me since before I was in the media, before anything. You know all my life. Do not change or crazy!